January 31, 2010

哭跟笑一樣重要

以下是摘入
國文老師的課外讀本





有一天,我跟一位設計師朋友聊到小孩子的一些事

他說當小孩子跌倒
他會對孩子說

''自己爬起來,不要哭''


''自起爬起來很好,可是

跌倒了很痛,可以哭吧!''
我這樣回答他

堅強,勇敢.快樂,樂觀.....這些都是很美好的特質
我很喜歡
也認同應該學習培養這些正面思考

但是

學習適時的表達自己的情感
哀傷,愤怒,沮喪,悲觀.....
讓情緒有個出口
也是一樣重要的!

如果孩子一哭
你不分青紅皂白
就是喝斥他

''不要哭,再哭,處罰就來了''

孩子表面變乖
內心其實是隱藏了更多恐懼

他怕
他哭了
會失去父母的愛
會被處罰

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    許琳跟雅韵一樣重要!!!
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