找到对的方法，心情就会好起来

      The title states very obviously, there is nothing that can't settle, but there is unchangeable. The words of "change" and "patient" are very hard for me, but "excuse" has been my habit.
      
       If you are lucky, then you will meet a person that change and accommodate himself/herself to you, but, unfortunately, you get the high opportunity of being betray. Unlucky, you will meet a person that do not compromise on matters of priciple, on the other word, he/she is hoping you to change your mistake, who knows there will be forever relationship. But, together stubborn is for sure do not have happy ending.

       Is it do not try to do our best to understand each other and change? Do not focus on the question that no answer forever.
why not just ask ourself want to improvement or success or not? Just like what Jessie said, "人生有多少个十年" , although it is the slogon from drama, but how many ppl have really subsitute it into real life, therefore, why not do the best we can and without requite? Also, "辛苦以后才会有光明", so, why not stick to the success and think longer abit.

       I not oppose a way of looking at things of everyone, but, everyone has their different experinece and different thinking, there are no such things that sure true or false, even Law also based on a situation. Finally, the important is you know what you want.

         "Yes, this is all what i want to find long time ago, i want this kind of feeling, keep on...don't go away.."

       

Start to feel something that is not under my control,

strat to feel my life very empty,

strat to feel no one can be trust,

strat to feel i am not happy,

strat to feel what i have concentrate is not meaningful,

every had change..

      今天上来没有什么特别的原因，只想记录下一点点也不晓得如何形容的心情，我没有特别的感动，也没有特别的讲究。只是，可惜，浪费，一场让全世界期待的巨星的演出，在他努力的让观众知道他的爱，他的尽力，感恩， 他的... ... 所有... ...所有... ...，不断的在保留，不断的在计划，把他最好的一面呈献给爱他观众。但，死神没有给他这个机会，就在差那么一点点，就一点，他的生命，画上了句点。

       多么装潢的纪录片，是那么地有意识，我无法想象真的成功的画面，他一定会再度红。一定！！！两句话会不断地听见，那是“L-O-V-E”,"God bless...",能想象在他的心理，是很... ... ....，抱歉，我说不出我的感觉。

       我和deardear,看了2D的，我只想说，全世界没有忘记你，我相信，几年后也不会有，你将会是历史性的人物。rest in peace.

Today, we both are just fiished pack up those things,

erm, i think pictures speak a thousand words,

suddenly feel lazy to think and so tired to upload my photo,

tomorrow will be continued my story^^

REST



Rest and rest^^



my IQ may not be good,
but i can be a EQ "controler"

Saturday, 17 October 2009

   This is the special day for my lovely cute cousin Xin Li, it is her 12 years old birthday, she is going to say bye for her childhood and welcome his teenager life in coming soon.


XIN XIN & PRESENTssssssss

HER PRESENTS ARE STILL COMING

    I was reached her house (Subang USJ) at 6pm i thought , her party actually was start at 7pm. Once i reached, my aunt as i call her "Xiao Go" in hokkien, she was asked me to organize the games with my eldest cousin, KeLi. Xiao Go was preparing 30++ presents for the games. Well, Ah Xin have too many friends, although she is standard 6 student, but, her friends include any ages  such as 3 years old, 4 years old, 5 years old, 6 years old, standard 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 and even form 1. of course, some is her father's business friend's children.
     
      This is the photo i captured once i reached her house , still not a lots people coming whcih can prove i reached early too..lol..


This was the foods..


        The games strated, those under standard 3 kids was participating in the games enjoyable, but those above standard 4 was paiseh to play. The games such as steps above newspapers, try to be the first to sit down the chairs, blow the biggiset ballons, sing Karaoke and so on.

         i am enjoy playing together and watching those kids to play, very funny and very happy.
haiz~  one thing that i can't don't admit was i am old!!! This is because until 12am something those kids were still haven go back yet, they keeping ask me to play with them, omg, im exhausted, but they are still full of vigour. ==" until 2am only all going back.


See So Cute, she also know how to sing..^^


OOps, sorry, i forgot to turn..she is 12 yeras old not 21yers old...
 
this baby very cute, she din't talk at all, i was wonder did she know how to talk..
i think she is 3 years old..

see, she is hidding for me to capture^^




 




it was quite late ald, i think was 1am, they are still playing and playing
 
rabbits~

KELI~
 
Shirly~                                                                  Xin Li~





























我非常地开心


















因为他们的                  童真           与                               赤子之心



















































the end~

Sun, 18 octorber 2009

    We having a lunch before come back, i can't remember what is the name of the restorance, but i know is under Hong Kong, of course is expensive. we order many dessert and 200kg of crabs, amazing, we can finish it. lol..

 





















姑丈送给小姑的生日礼物~(jealous =P)

i know it is very very od already..
but i full in love with it..

haiz............................

keli,shirly,xinli

all is my lovely cousins..

do you know what is this?
































guess it!!!






























still don't know?































Dang Dang Dang!!!

cauop!!!













zzz






























i know..









very boring..
 but it is cute

        虽说：生、老、病、死，是个很自然的循环，以为自己真的看破红尘，懂得如何面对， 无奈，事实往往都会令人们脆弱。是不是人长大了，避免不了面对，一次又一次的挫败？悲伤？ 人，生存在这世界上，是不是都是来受苦的？ 生命，真的如此地脆弱？说来就来，说走就走，不留一点一滴的情意。 旁观者，又能帮得了什么？ 并不想失去任何一件东西，虽说 “过渡期” ，时间能淡化一切事物，那能不能不要有“过渡期”？

        如果，一件对你来说，很重要，非常重要的事件，一声不响地离你而去，你会是如何面对？






























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Monday, is my group member going to the genting,
but i dint join, here to wish you all play happily^^

Close to you - the carpenters



Lyrics :
Why do birds

Suddenly appear?

Everytime you are near

Just like me

They long to be

Close to you



Why do stars

Fall down from the sky?

Everytime you walk by

Just like me

They long to be

Close to you



(*) on the day that you were born

The angels got together and decided

To create a dream come true

So they sprinkled moondust in your hair

Of gold and starlight in your eyes of blue



(**) that is why all the girls in town

Follow you all around

Just like me

They long to be

Close to you



Repeat (*)

Repeat (**)



Just like me

They long to be

Close to you



Woo... close to you...

or it is in giving that we receive;

　it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;

　and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

－Saint Francis　

當我們來到一生的終了時，要問的──

佚名

我實實在在的告訴你們，

一粒麥子不落在地裏死了，仍舊是一粒，

别看“financial Services”好像theory那样，
真的是幸运，它是calculation的
开心

MISS ＬＥＥ　ＮＹＵＫ　ＬＩＮＧ
是我们的ｌｅｃｔｕｒｅ　ａｎｄ　ｔｕｔｏｒ哦！
今天，真的是吓到我了，
我发梦也没想到会给他您教，
真的不知应该叫你什么好？

还是，尊敬一点好啦～叫ｍｉｓｓ　ｌｅｅ啦︿︿

我和我妈，跟她和她姐都有来往的，
算是朋友，现在当了我的教师，
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缘份

快乐的时间总是过得很快，
还没休息够，
并不想回去上课。

无奈~上课不让我感到有兴趣。
其实，真的很想不要返回学院。
谁能够开导我？

记住 anger ( 发怒 ) 与 danger ( 危险) 只差一個字
它会影响我们这份职业、甚至人际关系
正所谓「祸从口出…」
专家说:
「人，面对外人时，
总是可以表现得雍容大肚、心平气和，
但面对自己最亲近的家人，
却往往一点小事就足以皱起眉头，
甚至出言相伤。」

正如你永远只对你最爱、最亲的人生气
你会对住你上司、老板生气吗 ?

如果形容人类是一种
「出门高E.Q ，回家低E.Q 」的动物，
我想一点儿也不夸张，
多拿出一点耐心与包容给家人吧！
否则您自己也不會快乐，不是吗？


英文中的stressed（压力），与desserts（甜点），

有很微妙的相关。是什么相关呢？
仔细一瞧，好像沒什么关系嘛！
可是，再看一下，咦，

stressed 这个字从后面倒过來拼写不就是 desserts 吗？
所以，「Stressed is just desserts if you can reverse. 」
（压力就是甜点，只要你能逆向观看。）

人生之中，有许多「压力、挫折」，
但只要转个念、换个角度看，
它也就是我们生命中的「甜点」呀！


此外，也有人說：
「人生就像一碗饭，一半是甜的，一半是苦的，
你不知道会先吃到哪一边，但終究必须把饭吃完。」


是呀，生命有甜、有苦、有酸、也有辣；
但都必须去经历它、走過它呀！

有一个小学老师在偏远的乡里教书，
这天，他来到自己班上的教室，
问班上的小朋友：「你们大家有沒有讨厌的人啊」
小朋友们想了想，有的未作声，有的则猛力地点头。

老师接着便发給每人一個袋子，說：
「我们来玩一个游戏。现在大家想想看，过去这一 周， 曾有那些人得罪過你，他到底做了怎样可惡的事想到后後， 就利用放学时间到河边去找一块石头，
把他的名字给用小纸条贴在石头上，如果他实在很过份， 你就找一块大一点的石头，如果他的错是小错，你就找一块小一点的石头。
每天把战利品用袋子裝到学校來给老师看哦！」

学生们感到非常有趣且新鲜，
放学后，每个人都抢著到河边去找石头。
第二天一早，
大家都把裝著从河边捡来的鹅卵石的袋子帶到学校来， 兴高采烈地讨论著。
一天过去了，两天过去了，三天过去了... ，有的人的袋子越裝越大，几乎成了负担。
终于，
有人提出了抗议「老师，好累喔」老师笑了笑沒说话，立刻又有人接著喊：
「对啊每天背著这些石头来上课， 好累喔 」
这时，老师终于开口了，
她笑著说：「那就放下这些代表著別人过犯的石头吧」

孩子们有些讶异，

老师又接著讲：
「学习宽恕別人的过犯 ，
不要把它当宝一样的记在心上，扛在肩上，
时间久了，任谁也受不了…」