... Affairs ...
Met Kaishin at SIM yesterday cos she helped me to borrow a book from NUS and I collected from her.
We were talking about guys having affairs when they are married.
(He in general)
We thought that since a guy chose to marry, he should be responsible for the marriage.
And, the girl he married should be the one he loves and whom he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
I mean, the one he marries should be the one he loved soooooo much..
We don't understand how one can falls in love with another girl since he already married the one he loves...
If a guy has an affair with another girl, doesn't he feels guilty when he got home and sees his wife?
His wife is alone at home (or at work) while he is happily outside with another woman.
Then he got home and sleep with his wife at night...
Doesn't he feel guilty?
(To guys: the one sleeping beside you is YOUR WIFE. Don't you feel guilty?)
Doesn't he feel tired when he has to find all kinds of excuses when he goes out so as to cover the affair?
How many kinds of lies he has to think to cover it?
The wife will feel really sad and disappointed when she knows this.
The guy should think about these questions for his wife: what has the wife done to deserve this kind of treatment? Has she done anything wrong for you to break her heart like this? Is this fair to her? Even if she is not a good wife, she didn't do anything that deserves this, right?
Then, he should think about these questions for the third party: is this fair to her? You has a wife at home and when going out, you have to hide and not go to places where familiar people might go. Doesn't she feel sad when you go out(home) with(to) your wife. How would she feel when she think about how you sleep with your wife at night?
Then, the third party should think about this: why do you even want to be the third party?! You are breaking the heart of another woman. You are causing headaches and troubles (or even guiltiness) to the guy whom you think you loved. It is really selfish when you think you just want to be with the one you love.
To me, if the girl really loves you, she won't want to cause so much trouble to you. (Okay. Neither am I saying that she doesn't love you. I mean, there is something called 'CRUSH'. Don't know? Ask around or search online.)
To guys to are thinking or are already having affairs, think before you act. Even if you are already into it, stop it before your wife realizes it. There is something called 悬崖勒马.
Above applies to wife who are thinking or having affairs.
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