Is Your Guy A Player?-----Matthew Hussey
Hey Chuang,
Why do men play around when they know full well they will
eventually get caught, and it ends up hurting someone else's
feelings? What it comes down to for these types of guys is the
thrill of the chase, they get so wrapped up in the sexual tension
and chasing, it becomes somewhat of an addiction.
Ok so that's all well and good for them, but what about if you are
on the receiving end of this, how bad is this going to make you
feel when you find out he's cheating on you or he's thinking about
it? Terrible of course!
However there are a few things you should know if you want to spot
whether he is that type of guy and what you need to do to get out
quick before you get hurt, so let's get started...
"Warning: Is Your Guy A Player?"
1. He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front of you
Players are often always thinking about where the next one is
coming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantly
flirt with other women right under your nose.
I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl he talks
to, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, or making
inappropriate physical contact with every girl who comes over.
2. He openly talks about other women in your presence
Some players will be completely untactful about showing (or even
outright telling you!) about their attraction for other women.
Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is
either trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that
he's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign of
a player).
3. He's uncurious about you as a person
Players aren't usually bothered about you past the superficial
characteristics.
Usually a "player" type will want you because he's sexually
attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that will
help him know you better as a person.
4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special
Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often
means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one
of them.
A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely
he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been
dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.
5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life
Players want casual relationships. That means they get panicked at
the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,
or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple.
Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in
becoming a bigger part of your life.
On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They
never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of
feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.
Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting
the players early on!
So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are
players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at
developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your
feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worth
your time to try and change them - because they won't change!
Get The Guy, 4th Floor, 43 Berkeley Square, Mayfair, W1J 5AP, UNITED KINGDOM
Matthew Hussey
Get The Guy, 4th Floor, 43 Berkeley Square, Mayfair, W1J 5AP, UNITED KINGDOM
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