November 7, 2009

愛情滋味<歡迎大家點進來看看>

有的人一輩子不敢碰到愛情這兩個字,但是他們常常聽別人談戀愛,
聽了別人的戀愛,彷彿自己在想像戀愛的情節,如果別人戀愛的結局是好
的,當然他對愛情就會有所期待,但是萬一聽到的是負面的評價,往往造成他對愛情先入為主的觀念。

曾經經歷過失敗的愛情的人最常告訴別人說:「我就說嘛!愛情就是讓人摸索不到的地帶。」

或者他會回答說:「愛情就像一場遊戲,真是一點也沒錯。」
這樣的藉口成為他在愛情中萬一受到挫折而可以逃避的理由。

因為他們把在愛情中的失敗或是挫折全都丟給了對方,自己脫離了愛情的主
體,好像宣示說愛情的成敗與他無關,他已經努力過了,可是他就是遇人不淑。

如果你沒有親身體驗過愛情中的『酸甜苦辣』,你不能說你談過戀愛,就像如果你在愛情的無情沙場中,
不曾身經百戰過,想要說服別人說你是兩性專家,那麼你只是個會理論而不懂得實際操作的說書者。


有時候我會聽見一些在愛情中受了傷的人,他會告訴其他人不要談戀愛,因為他們認為在愛情中受了那麼多傷,有一天你也會和他一樣。

當然以我的角度我覺得這些人莫名其妙,你的命運為何要讓別人也跟你一樣,你的不幸,不必要等待別人也去體會,我覺得,曾經受過傷的人更應該要分享他們的愛,好讓別人不會在愛情中跌跤,不會犯同樣的錯。

《這世界上有種愛情的滋味叫做幸福》


這種幸福的滋味需要心中有愛的人才能體會,而且當他在體會幸福滋味的同時,他也必須是個會掌握幸福滋味的人。


至於如何掌握,並不是聽別人告訴你該怎麼做。


有時你該在情人有爭執時,停下腳步聽聽對方的心聲。


有時你在生氣時,該用溫暖的心去關懷對方。縱使你覺得自己委屈,你還必須想到對方的心情。


唯有如此,你的愛情才能讓自己和對方都嚐得到『幸福滋味』。

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