June 17, 2009

婚事繁瑣

結婚的過程好瑣碎唷!!!
光要講個提親雙方條件跟價值觀感不一樣,
畢竟年代不同,
我不能判定誰對誰錯,
我起初認為收聘金等同於賣女兒,但也不然拉!!!
到後來我認為收聘金是天經地義的事,聘金回不回給男方,並不是很重要,
相同的女方也要負擔的起嫁妝給男方,這才算是相等的對待,
結婚若是兩人的事一切都很好解決,
但雙方或另一方認為結婚是關西到全家族的事,
那就有好多的人要說服,我好累唷!!!
我認為幸不幸福是掌握在自己手上,
年紀只是個差距但不是個問題,
嫁出去後,我依然可以回去探望娘家依然可以幫助我第這不是很好嗎????
我要怎樣讓雙方"啟蒙子"很好,這或許是在考驗我吧!!!
但我為別人想別人也不會感謝我阿,
搞得自己心理上承擔的壓力很大,
心情就快樂不起來,
人一定要這麼世俗嗎???
錢有那麼重要嗎???

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