February 26, 2009

傷 痛 會 過 去






   在抽屜裡放一枚小鏡子,

鏡子不用大,只要能看清楚你的臉就行了,

當你覺得沮喪、生氣的時候,先別急著發作,

拿出鏡子,看看自己的表情,

你會驚訝鏡中的自己變得不可愛了,

自己看了都要嚇一跳,愉快不起來,更何況別人,

怒氣沖沖的眼神和下垂嘴角,這是誰都想逃避的一張臉吧!











   對自己笑一笑,大方一點,笑可以緩和你的顏面神經,

一開始也許因為不高興,整張臉依然緊繃著,多試幾次就好了。

如果這時候,你心中依然覺得不平或委屈,

好,那麼和對方好好溝通,

記住,是溝通,而不是吵架,吵架即使得到了解決,

那解決也是表面的,深層的間隙依然存在,甚至擴展的更大。










   當你的表情不那麼緊繃,對方的防禦心也會隨之放鬆,

不會為了防衛自己而一味的攻擊你,溝通才有可能達成。

常常來出鏡子,對自己笑一笑,溫柔的表情是和諧相處的第一步。

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