思緒 亂
年紀越增, 看不順眼的事越多.
在嫌棄批評時, 也是種批評.
不順眼, 也被不順眼.
November 22, 2009
November 12, 2009
針對一些學校的行為
學校的一場成果發表, 如果是老師逼學生產生的表演, 那不叫做成果發表, 那叫做錯誤教育. 逼出來的這些表演不是學生們該呈現的成果, 讓比較會思考的來賓看到也只會覺得奇怪為什麼學校會逼學生們做出他不想做的事情, 在那邊跳啊跳的, 難道這是減肥夏令營嗎? 或 許有 老師會覺得沒有逼學生他們就什麼都弄不出來! 到時候沒有表演學校很丟臉! 不過有沒有老師會反問自己為什麼自己的學生會如此沒有成果? 原因何來? 老師不能永遠只怪學生生性懶惰啊!
學生們在學校整天學習的是民主民主民主, 但是諷刺的是學校執行的卻是高壓統治! 表裡不一, 口號說滿滿卻什麼都做不出來, 這是學校每天都在傳導給學生們的訊息. 學校百年如一日一點進步都沒有! 學校本身的教育方式就沒有成果可以發表了, 請問你們要學生發表什麼? 是有很多學校亂七八糟方面的演講題材, 不過除此之外我想不到有什麼了! 老師做任何事情都你推我閃, 事倍功半, 毫無熱情可言. 老師們怎麼能怪學生們有樣學樣呢? 這就是你教出來的學生啊!
而且每個學生本來就都不一樣, 老師又怎麼能要求他們完全認同一件事情呢? 這也太幼稚了! 又不是在訓練海狗跳火圈! 而且海狗跳過火圈後還有點心吃. 不願意跳舞的學生被逼跳完舞後呢? 回教室繼續上課而已, 唯一能高興的地方也只有不用再繼續做不願意的事情了. “讓想上台的人上台.”我實在不懂這樣的理念是多虛幻為什麼會很難辦到? 如果是一件非要全部人集體決定的事情, 為什麼不能用投票的? 老師們的角色完全只在於當學生選出方向後去督導學生, 當有學生出軌時才把他揪回來, 讓他知道這是大家的決定不能不尊重. 老師們不該有任何決定的權力! 老師是傳授方法, 知識, 開闊學生視野, 是個很被動的腳色. 人生道路請讓學生們自己鋪, 就算是條充滿坑洞的崎嶇之路, 老師也只能在學生摔倒時幫助並確認他爬起來而已.
October 8, 2009
Operation 趕場 - Day 10 2009-04-12
第十天
早上起來原本要把行李托到火車站的置物箱去, 但是還好鄧阿姨願意讓我再多住一晚...不然我本來是想要當天晚上露宿火車站之類的XD 出了門後, 今天太陽很大, 但是因為還是春天吧...風涼涼了非常舒服!...在碧潭的吊橋上點了支菸看風景, 不慌不忙畢竟跟扣陶是約10點半.
到了信義誠品後...想說先去看看書吧! 因為樓上書店先開了...哈! 順便到旁邊賣蘋果電腦的玩一下I phone...哇~質感好棒ㄚ! 會愛上! 不過聽到價錢我就....覺得自己很窮...到了樓下後...找到了扣陶的攤位了! 原來是在個超級不顯眼的角落, 而且攤位夠小! 果然就像他所描述的一樣! 難怪業績好不起來, 這邊根本就很少人會來逛...跟他聊到一半的時候似乎有生意上門了...一個跟我們年紀差不多的人吧..開始問東問西的, 而且真的很懂...什麼美規歐規的標準值全部都懂...那看來他好像真的會買我就先到樓上去看看昨天討論到的porter包包. 看了之後再次打擊了自己...真的事他XX的貴! 唉...心想口袋裡的7年前的porter皮夾不知道哪天才能夠換><"(現在已經換了不過不是porter). 最後又下去跟扣陶聊了一下...跟他說我等下要去唱歌XD 讓他忌妒一下...因為本來我跟她昨天有計畫要去唱的! 哈哈哈! 不過真的是因為時間方面不允許啦...反正還有機會的! 改天一定跟扣陶去唱到掛!
August 3, 2009
This is as good as it gets
Did you ever wake up in the morning and just suddenly realize that you've lost every reason to get out of bed. You work in a dead end job, can't seem to ever understand your kids, and your wife's just another lump of meat next to you in bed. There is this sad poetic beauty about how men end up. Love's got nothing to do with marriage. Children and father relationship basically ceased to exist after they reach 18. The jobs, doing what one loved will forever be the luxury of single and childless men. Mortgage for the house, for the car, Children's collegue fund and so much other reasons for one to sign his soul over to the devil and bend over for the peny. Before you realise that your life's been going down hill for the past 10 years with no up turn in sight, you're 17kilos over weight with a heart condition and as a futile attempt to assume some control your own life, you are still popping candies into your mouth even though the doctors say that you are about to become diabetic. Desperately grabbing for what's left of your masculinity. You decide to buy a $55000 guitar and try to get a band going. Asking the few friends you have left to join, whom are also eager to as they go throught the same period in their life. You guys aren't bad, bordering on good. You try to fix a few gigs for the band and the turn outs weren't bad. Until one day, your wife can't take you spending so much time on the band any more. You have a big fight, arguing about what you want and what she wants, but of course in the end she wins and you have to break up the band.
So now it's saturday, but you came to the office to escape from the chores that your wife's ordered you to do, you would've asked if your kids wanted to come, but naturally you know they've got other priorities than to spend time with you. You stare at the family picture on your desk, and all you think about are the good times that you once had and naively thought forever would have. Then all of a sudden you realize something profound,
This is as good as it gets.
July 28, 2009
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June 27, 2009
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June 15, 2009
June 12, 2009
想給妳的...
June 11, 2009
June 11, 2009
Sealed (Nov 20)
