November 10, 2008

You'll never be someone's god...


These days, I have one true feeling about that...

You'll never be someone's god, don't try to change their thoughts, minds, acting, even their souls!!!

What makes me say that?  It's a long story...


One of my friends, let's called her Libra Girl, is a silent, sad, serious girl.
Serious personality makes her thinking too much,
Thinking too much makes her silent,
Thinking too much makes her always sad,
That's what she is,anytime and everywhere, especially when we talk about love, and relationship...

In my way of thinking, 
in her deep down of her soul , there are some missing pieces she left somewhere in the universe.


I try my best to convince her    " Let it go,  next one will be nicer"   "he doesn't know the way to treasure you, stop thinking about the wrong one"
I try my best to stay with her,
but she can always use fragmentary time to call that guy, to make her heart even more broken...
or even when I stay with her, she just couldn't stop calling other guys (may want date her) to heal her aggrieve soul that was hurt by that guy.

I felt frustrated because I tried so hard to pull her out the situation,she just wanted to get herself in it, deeper and deeper!
That made me fell I'm useless,and my thinking changed to " Why should I spend my times to do such things like that, It's totally FUTILITY!!!"

So, I'll let you go, Libra Girl, to do what you want ,to think what you think, It's not my business anymore...

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  • 1樓

    1樓搶頭香

    寶貝~我在頭昏昏.腦鈍鈍的情況下看完你的一整篇英文文章...
    但首先我一定要說:What's Libra Girl mean?
    我還真的不太懂是什麼意思~ =.=a

    我知道你在說誰
    也知道你說的那個人的思考邏輯
    我懂你累了.倦了.不想再說了~
    我懂...
    但是也許~他就是這樣個一個需要人家呵護.安慰.照顧的女孩
    也許他真的需要多一點點時間~讓他改變....
    你說的沒錯~You'll never be someone's god!
    這點非常同意..
    因為記得以前我試圖要改變你的時候~是有多麼的難阿!
    哈哈哈哈哈哈~
    但是..我覺得...你可以不用這麼快放棄啦~
    因為看在他是你的好朋友~你又這麼了解他的份上...
    也許~就給他多一點的時間~
    他只有妳..只有你把他當這麼好的朋友~給他很多的支持和鼓勵...
    就像我~我這麼的在乎妳...
    我很難想像沒有你存在地球上的日子該怎麼辦~
    (這句有點誇張~哈哈~但就是要誇示咩!才會有效果!)
    很多事情~你懂我的...不用我多講你會知道
    可是我們也是經過了多少多少的溝通~爭執~才有現在這樣的相處模式
    所以...
    寶貝~別因為這樣就氣餒.就難過.就打算放棄了...
    可能你可以改變另外的相處模式
    以後讓他自己講出他的想法~你發問~
    一問再問...最後~在講出你的建議...
    置於聽不聽~就看他了!

    天ㄚ~我第一次回應這麼多文字ㄟ!
    王阿力~要感動一下喔~呵呵呵...

  • 小小奶兒 at November 10, 2008 01:20 PM comment
  • 挖賽! 親愛的 你這不是回應 是寫文章了吧 我的天哪~~~

    當然是有給他超級感動一個~~~

    呼 不過那個Libra Girl 我不想理他了 因為 ‧講‧不‧聽‧

  • Blog Owner at November 10, 2008 03:07 PM Reply
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    2樓頸推

    哈哈哈
    妳們兩個真的是耍寶啊

    寫的漏漏長
    有看沒有懂

    啊~上面一樓的
    阿力說的沒錯妳要不要自己開一篇文章呢

    哈哈哈
    一整個笑到肚子痛啦

  • a26345606 at November 10, 2008 10:33 PM comment | prosecute
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