November 13, 2010

如何才算愛一個人?


常常有人問我,無論是朋友、網友、還是親人!

到底該怎麼做才算是愛一個人呢?

其實愛、恨往往只是在我們的一念之間!

愛不僅要懂得寬容更要及時,很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉變罷了!

網路、書籍,總是有著千萬篇的愛情文章,

每個人的愛情觀都不一樣,說對了叫開導,

但就怕說錯反倒變成誤導...那就糟糕了!!

愛的感覺 ,總是在一開始覺得很甜蜜 ,

總覺得多一個人陪、多一個人幫你分擔,你終於不再孤單了,

至少有一個人想著你、戀著你,不論做什麼事情,

只要能一起,就是好的,但是慢慢的,隨著彼此的認識愈深,

你開始發現了對方的缺點,於是問題一個接著一個發生,

你開始煩、累,甚至想要逃避 ,有人說愛情就像在撿石頭,

總想撿到一個適合自己的,但是你又如何知道什麼時候能夠撿到呢?

你覺得她適合你?但,你有想過,你適合她嗎?

愛一個人,要了解,也要開解;要道歉,也要道謝;

要認錯,也要改錯;要體貼,也要體諒;是接受,而不是忍受;

是寬容,而不是縱容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰問,而不是質問;

是傾訴,而不是控訴;是難忘 ,而不是遺忘 ;

是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;

是為對方默默祈求,而不是向對方諸多要求;

可以浪漫 ,但不要浪費;可以隨時牽手,但不要隨便分手 。

 

 

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