October 25, 2010

拿的起,放的下~(放棄)


有一種心情叫失落,

有一種美麗叫放棄。

放棄一個心儀卻無緣份的朋友、

放棄某種等待卻無收穫的感情、

放棄某種心靈的期望、

每放棄一種思緒,

心裡便生出一種失落。

然而這種失落並不妨礙自己去重新開始,

在新的時空內將音樂重聽一遍,

將故事再冥想一遍。

因為這是一種自然的告別與放棄,

它富有超脫精神,因而傷感得美麗。  

曾經有種感覺,想讓它成為永遠。

過了許多年,才發現它已漸漸消逝了。

才知道原來握在手裡的,

不一定就是我所想真正擁有的;

我所擁有的,

也不一定就是我真正銘刻在心裡的;

人生很多時候需要自覺地放棄,

因為世間還有太多美好的事物。

對無法擁有的美好,

我一直苦苦嚮往與追求,

為了獲得,而搞的焦頭爛額。

其實自己真正所需要的,

往往要在經過許多年後才會明白。

而對已經擁有的美好,

又因為把握不住尺度,

而存在一份忐忑與擔心...  

夕陽易逝的嘆息、花開花落的煩惱、

人生本是起起落落的啊...

因為擁有的時候,

我們也許正在失去,

而放棄的時候,

我們也許又在重新獲得。

對萬事萬物,

我們都不可能有絕對的把握。

如果刻意去追逐與擁有,

就很難走出患得患失的世界。  

生命需要昇華出安靜超然的精神,

明白的人懂得放棄,

真情的人懂得犧牲,

幸福的人懂得超脫。

雖然我不是因妳而來到這個世界,

卻因妳而更加眷戀這個世界。

如果能和妳在一起,

我會對這個世界滿懷感激;

如果不能和妳在一起,

我會默默地走開,

卻仍然不會失掉對這個世界的愛和感激。

感激上天讓我與妳相遇,與你別離,

完成上天所創造的一首詩!

生命給了我無盡的悲哀,

也給了我永遠的答案。

於是,安然一份放棄,固守一份超脫。

不管紅塵世俗的生活如何變遷,

不管個人的選擇方式如何,

更不管握在手中的東西輕重如何,

我們雖逃避也勇敢,雖傷感也欣慰!

我們仍像往常一樣向生活的深處走去,

我們像往常一樣在逐步放棄,卻更加堅定!

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