October 12, 2009

戀愛難

最近身邊的好友常常為了戀愛苦惱
甚至有人發明了"做愛容易,戀愛難"的驚語!!
來表明一段長久親密關係所需要的努力
分享家族治療大師Virginia Satir對於維持伴侶關係的語錄
與大家共勉之



Virginia Satir

I want to love you without clutching 我希望能夠愛你,卻不會緊抓著你
Appreciate you without judging 欣賞你,不帶批判
Join you without invading 參與你,而沒有任何侵犯
Invite you without demanding 邀請你,卻無絲毫勉強
Leave you without guilt 離開你,心中不會有愧疚
Criticize you without blaming 指正你,而不含責備
And help you without insulting 還有能,幫助你,卻不帶冒犯
If I can have the same from you 如果,你也能如此待我
Then we can truly meet 那麼,我們便能真實相待
and enrich each other. 並豐潤彼此的生命

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    1樓搶頭香

    Sealed

  • Sealed at October 13, 2009 12:41 AM comment
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    2樓頸推

    好棒的語錄唷~複製不下來~寄給我(快)~先說謝謝囉!

  • 嫈絨 at October 17, 2009 01:23 AM comment
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    3樓坐沙發

    hey, I like it. those words are so touching.

    how's going man? we haven't contacted to each other for
    thousands days.

  • saxwinnie at November 8, 2009 08:20 PM comment | prosecute
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    福樓

    Sealed

  • Sealed at November 8, 2009 09:19 PM comment
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    剛開始認識的時候總是為了想見對方一面,抱著既期待又緊張的心情

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