October 13, 2009

遠距離

為什麼要遠距離?


                                                               
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看到板友們傾訴閃光不夠體貼、時常聯絡不上或是其他困擾,                         
                                                                               
同樣陷入週期性情緒低潮的我,                                                   
                                                                               
不禁捫心自問著:                                                               
                                                                               
為什麼要遠距離?                                                               
                                                                               
不能和戀人朝夕相處的無奈,                                                     
                                                                               
不能隨時隨地分享自己的快樂與憂傷,                                             
                                                                               
不能看到對方溫暖的微笑,                                                       
                                                                               
不能用一個擁抱詮釋對彼此的愛。

既然遠距離比一般戀愛還來得辛苦,                                              
                                                                               
為什麼還要遠距離?                                                             
                                                                               
為什麼我們要「捨近求遠」,                                                     
                                                                               
為著對方不接我們電話、彷彿人間蒸發的舉止焦躁不安?                             
                                                                               
難道是因為我們身邊沒有在乎我們的人,                                           
                                                                               
沒有熱切積極的追求者,                                                         
                                                                               
所以就先騎驢找馬、將就將就?                                                   
                                                                               
對我而言並不是這樣的。                                                         
                                                                               
之所以知道遠距離很困難還要繼續下去,                                           
                                                                               
是因為不是對方就不行。                                                         
                                                                               
不論發生什麼事,   

第一時間你只想與對方分享。                                                    
                                                                               
儘管身邊不乏朋友和家人,                                                       
                                                                               
但那種感覺還是不一樣的。                                                       
                                                                               
朋友能安慰你,                                                                 
                                                                               
家人能鼓勵你,                                                                 
                                                                               
但你知道只有在情人的懷抱中,                                                   
                                                                               
你的情緒才能找到出口,                                                         
                                                                               
你的表現才能獲得認同。                                                         
                                                                               
儘管遠距很辛苦很難熬,                                                         
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